Iβm coming to the end of my second month being a stay-and-work-at-home-mum (SWAHM – yes it does exist!)Β and to say itβs been a learning curve is an understatement. Working from home with a newborn baby sleeping peacefully in his seat is one thing, but quite another now heβs almost 17 weeks old and demanding more and more attention.
So I thought now would be a good time to share my top tips.
Of course it depends on what you do β my job involves sitting in front of the computer and talking on the phone. In the last week Iβve done a phone interview with the managing director of Innocent smoothies with Little B plugged into a boob, and jiggled him in one hand while writingΒ with the other during a separate phone interview with the head of marketing at Coca Cola Enterprises. Good job neither were video calls.
As the weeks go on Iβm having to factor in increasing amounts of contingency time ahead of my deadlines in case we have what BB calls a βcrying dayβ (she means Little B, not me. Honest.)Β
My advice forΒ keepingΒ baby entertained is this:
1. The play mat
If I position the play mat directly under my chair so that I can peer down at Little B and smile/chat/pull a face every few minutes heβs happy for up to half an hour at a time. Particularly if it involves nappy off time (I think this might be a boy thing).
Usefulness rating: 5/5
2. The door bouncer
This is excellent while it lasts. Although it wonβt keep him occupied for as long as the play mat next to me, heβs quite happy for 10-15 minutes at a time.
Usefulness rating: 4/5
3. The baby gym
With a mirror attached and various toys dangling down the baby gym is starting to come into its own. It doesnβt keep him occupied for as long as Iβd like though.
Usefulness rating: 3/5
4. The papoose
You wouldn’t think working from home with a baby is back breaking, but keep this on too long and it is. The papooseΒ is great at keeping Little B asleep, but not so great for my back. But persevere, and I can get a good uninterrupted hour of work done.
Usefulness rating: 3/5
5. The pushchair
If all else fails a quick walk around the block in the push chair is sure to send Little B to sleep. I then simply wheel him into the hall and leave him there, keeping my fingers crossed heβll sleep for as long as possible.
Usefulness rating: 5/5
And here are my top 5Β tips for getting through the working day:
1) Donβt try and achieve too much β set realistic goals about what youβre going to get done and anything extra is a bonus.
2) If breast feeding, invest in a nursing pillow which allows you to feed hands-free. Mineβs by Thrupenny Bits and it really does work.
3) Make full use of your smart phone during feeds β youβll be surprised at how many emails you can send.
4) Try and tire the baby out before you start work in order to maximise nap time.
5) Never underestimate the power of CBeebies. Ever.
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I also work from home with an 11-week-old while homeschooling an 8-year-old. It’s not easy. Far from it. And my baby will ONLY sleep if she’s on me. As soon as I set her down she wakes up. I wear her a lot to get her to sleep, but they are definitely not friendly on the back. I now understand why some parents who work from home will hire someone to watch their kids while they work.
Its so hard isnt it. Mine is now 10 months and into everything. My tip has been to make sure the house is as baby friendly as possible so I don’t have to chase him everywhere. He can be free to play safely. #MBPW
My 1yo wants the laptop. He wants it SO BADLY. I can’t use it when he’s around anymore π
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What a fantastic post! Thank you! My little one is 18 weeks now and I work from home. So far I mainly work while she sleeps but there have been days where I’ve needed all the tricks in the book! Thank you so much for sharing, and for linking up to #MaternityMatters x x
Wow, well done. I barely make it through my small list of chores everyday with my 4 month old. Much respect!
I am a SWAHM too! However I’ve only just been ramping up the work but recently and baby girl is nearly one. You are very brave for starting it so early. My secret is trying to cram as much as possible in during baby girls nap time which is normally 3 hours in the day and then working in the evenings. I’m sure you would agree it’s hard work, like you are in work mode from the minute you wake up to the minute you go to bed but also so rewarding to be at home with your baby x #fromtheheart
Three hours nap time in the day – you’re sooo lucky! I’m lucky if Little B sleeps for an hour…yes it is hard work but like you say, at least we’re home with them x #fromtheheart
Great advice, mine are older so I mainly rely on CBeebies! Mine loved the bouncers though, and we had that playmat, it’s lovely isn’t it. Becky x #fromtheheart
CBeebies is a god send! Don’t know what I’d do without it! #fromtheheart
I can definitely relate to this! I have been using the same tricks with Babou who is 14 weeks old to try and get some work done. Some days are more successful than others…! This little one doesn’t sleep much and likes to be entertained which makes it a real mission to achieve anything! Thank you so much for sharing your tips! #fromtheheart
I hope my tips help – the things we do..! #fromtheheart
YES! Smartphones rule. Also, I tried to work from home with baby around and he was having none of it: me and my laptop were always MUCH more interesting than anything else. Thanks for sharing #fromtheheart
I don’t know what I’d do without my phone – my email signature even says ‘sent from my Samsung, probably while breast feeding’ for good measure! #fromtheheart
So much awesomeness within this post! Especially the old pushchair in the hall trick. That way you know you’ve got at least 45minutes to get something done. #fromtheheart
It’s getting harder the bigger he’s getting though…!
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I can totally relate to this. I was the same when my daughter was a newborn and she now comes to work with me. I used all these things too, except a papoose. What is that!? I’ve never heard of one!