Now I donβt pretend to know much β if anything – about fashion, but having breastfed for a combined total of four years and counting I do know quite a lot about nursing clothes. Mainly that they’re to be avoided at all costs.
Iβm now breastfeeding baby number three and it never fails to amaze me how unflattering so many clothes designed for nursing are β baggy and shapeless and devoid of any colour or charisma.
I find this quite baffling because if there’s one thingΒ a new mum wants to feel it’s that they look nice. So what can you do if you’re breastfeedingΒ and don’t want to be limited to what’s on offer in the ‘new mum’ section of baby shops?
I’ve discovered that by sticking with a few classic styles it is possible to wear ‘normal’ clothes without having toΒ get half undressed in the process (fine if you’re feedingΒ at home but not so good if you’re breastfeeding in public).
Here’s what I’ve learnt.
5 fashion tips for breastfeeding mums
1. All you really need is a decent nursing vest. Or six. With a proper nursing vest on underneath you can wear pretty much anything over the top and still get to the milk bar without exposing too much flesh. And you can never have too many. I have two white ones, two grey ones and two black ones so I always have a clean one to match whatever it is Iβm wearing on top.
2. Flowy tops are your friend. With the aforementioned nursing vest on underneath you can simply lift up a flowy top and bingo. Like nursing vests you can never have too many β my latest addition is this ivory printed vest top by Anthology (Β£12), which has a pleat at the front so plenty of room to lift up and feed.
And as you can see itβs perfect for the job in hand!
3. Go for button or zip-down tops and dresses. Again, with a nursing vest on underneath all you need to do is undo the buttons or zip and youβre in. Think tunic tops like this Simply Be denim tunic top (Β£35).
Iβve been wearingΒ it withΒ leggings and the tunic-style has the added bonus of hiding any lingering mum tum at the same time.
4. Like flowy tops, dungarees are also your friend. Whether itβs full-on trouserΒ dungarees or a dungaree dress, all you need to do is unhook the front.
5. When in doubt, wear a scarf. Cleverly draped scarves hide a multitude of sins, from an exposed cleavage to side boob to the dreaded muffin top.Β So you canΒ still feed in outfits that don’tΒ look like they lend themselves to feeding, likeΒ this gorgeous Joe Browns vintage tea dress (Β£45).
It’s got an elasticated waistΒ soΒ plenty of ‘give’Β for me toΒ slip an arm out of the top to feed. The straps are also nice and thick soΒ hideΒ myΒ nursing bra straps and clips.
Did you breastfeed your baby and what were your nursing must-haves? If you have any tips Iβd love to hear them!
I was very kindly sent the clothes featured in this post by JD Williams for the purpose of review. As always all opinions are my own and based on my own honest experience.
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Great tips. Scarves have to be be perfect for acting as a cover up too. I’m sure with my first I ended up not really caring and just wapping my boob out most of the time! Layering is also good so you don’t have to flash the mum tum too! Thanks for joining us for #marvmondays x
Gorgeous Items! I’m not breastfeeding anymore sadly but am still off to treat myself to the print top! Beautiful xx #marvmondays
I agree that you can never have too many nursing vest tops. I also bought loads of cheap vest tops from primark and just wear them under floaty tops and just pull the front down – doesn’t matter if I stretch them as they are only a couple quid each. I love all your outfits here, you’re looking amazing just a month post baby xx #marvmondays
Some good tips here, and all so pretty. I lived in a black nursing vest (I literally leaked for a year) and black legging and tbh it got more than a little tedious. Next time (eek-I am slowly considering maybe we are brave enough for a next time), I am going to look into these options. That denim dress is lovely. And all these I would wear non BF too. #marvmondays
Great tips! Im always suprised there arent better nursingwear surely it cant be that difficult! I lived in vests and cardigans for months! #postsfromtheheart
Great post! I am still breastfeeding my 2 and a half year old. We pretty much avoided nursing clothes and I can feed in most things. Really great guide for other mums who want to expand their wardrobe and feel restricted by wearing only nursing clothes #postsfromtheheart
Good tips and I practically use quite a few of them.. my main ones are that I buy the thin vests out of primark and wear them under any top I wear so that when im out and about which is often then people are spared the sight of my flesh and also it keeps me warm! I also wear the thin scarfs so can be handy esp as my girl is now 9mths and loves to play with it while feeding instead of yanking on my tops all the time! #postsfromtheheart
Fab post honey… so useful. Thanks
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What a fab post and great tips! Could of done with reading this before I started my BF 8 months ago! #MarvMondays
Great tips, I’m sure this will be really helpful to someone! I’m not breastfeeding, nor will I ever now, but I love that scarf! #postsfromtheheart
I need all of these tips! When I gave birth to my first daughter I suddenly entered the unknown world of breastfeeding and although I didn’t have a problem with doing it in public I struggled so much with what to wear. #MarvMondays
Helen x
These are wonderful tips! Finding something to wear was always a challenge.
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Great tips. Keep boobing mama! #TwinklyTuesday
Lovely clothes and great tips, a scarf is a must for reducing over exposure, I always feed in a carrier too #twinklytuesday
These are cute cute shirts- Even though my boobies are about dry as the Sahara I would still rock the first two!
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Aww cute clothes. Leggings and a loose dress I always tended to wear!
Aww cute clothes. Leggings and a loose dress I always tended to wear!
I found that even just normal vest tops worked well with a looser top over it – could pull the vest down and looser top up and keep everything covered up pretty well! I love that flowery dress #twinklytuesday
I’ve breastfed Arthur for over two years and I’m due with baby number 2 in August … completely agree it can be so hard to find nice (and affordable!) nursing clothes. I too went down the nursing vest route underneath other clothes, failing that, a scarf. Dresses were the hardest thing to find something suitable #twinklytuesday
You look lovely on all the pics π great tips! I just tend to wear any top my baby can get access to and doesn’t show too much boob!! I like the flowing tops though xx #twinklytuesday
i wish I had of looked more into clothes for breastfeeding, I always felt so awkward. I love the styles too, they’d totally be the kind of things I’d go for #TwinklyTuesday
I’m currently breastfeeding my 5 month old and nursing vests have become my best friend! #MarvMonday
These are lovely. I do have some nursing tops but now I’ve lost quite a bit of the baby weight, they are definitely unflattering! Thanks for linking up with #TwinklyTuesday
Flowing tops and button down shirts were my saviour. I hated maternity bras so like you i had lots of vests. #postsfromtheheart