‘Parenting’ and ‘easy’ are two words most parents would probably agree don’t belong in the same sentence.
While there’s nothing easy about parenting, I do think parenting gets easier when it’s warmer.
We’ve been enjoying summer time temperatures in our neck of the woods and things have definitely been less challenging than they are in deepest darkest winter.
So I thought I’d add to my series of ‘5 ways’ posts – see 5 ways to rock being a working mum and 5 ways running will change your life – with 5 ways parenting is easier in summer.
5 ways parenting is easier in summer
1. Less washing. We rarely see the bottom of the dirty laundry basket (since Littlest B arrived in February I don’t think I’ve seen it once) but the scale of the dirty clothes heap reaches epic proportions in the winter months when everyone’s wearing two or even three layers of clothes. Roll on summer when shorts and t-shirts are all that’s required. With a bit of luck we might even get away with just nappies and pants for a week or two. (At home, obviously).
2. Less wiping. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: wiping is the bane of my life. I feed the kids outside as much as possible when it’s warm because you don’t have to wipe, vacuum or sweep up afterwards. There’s no such thing as drips and crumbs on grass.
3. Less mess. I also spend as much time as possible outside with the kids in the summer because it means they can’t mess up the house. We’re lucky to have lots of child-friendly parks where we are including paddling pools which are filled from May to September. This is a double bonus because if you take a picnic tea with you and put them in the paddling pool afterwards you can get away without giving them a bath.
4. Day drinking. There’s nothing like a white wine spritzer on a summer lunchtime to take the edge off the rest of the day. The meltdown because you had the audacity to serve yoghurt with the ‘wrong’ coloured spoon, the poonami that not only spilled over the top and sides of the nappy but seeped all over the baby bouncer covers you’ve only just washed – suddenly these things just don’t seem so bad.
5. There’s life after kids. Instead of closing the curtains and crashing out on the sofa with a bottle of wine when they’ve gone to bed the lighter evenings mean you can actually do something. Something for you. Regular readers will know I have a she shed on our allotment which I reckon makes me a better mum. I’m looking forward to sneaking down there after they’re tucked up in bed this summer.
Has the weather been good where you are and if so have you found things easier on the parenting front? I’d love to know!
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Haha sprtizers do help! Living in the Middle East however the reverse is true. Much easier to manage in winter than the 50 degree summer.
Summer is coming – she says with dread! #marvmondays
Bahhha I love that day drinking makes the cut! I find our home feels a lot more spacious in Summer as we use the Graden to play, to eat etc #marvmondays
I love this! Summer is the best and it’s a joy to be able to let Josh play out in the garden! Now I just need a she shed! xx #marvmondays
I love this and so true!! Thanks for joining us for #marvmondays xx
Giving up drinking means I miss out on the day drinking fun, but I LOVE the decline in washing, and that its warm enough LO can eat in a nappy and I can rinse her off with the shower if things get crazy (which they do)
BRING ON SUMMER
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My first summer as a dad has arrived and i’m loving the weather. Mines a Rioja or a Malbec though in place of the spritzer!
Love love love this post and it makes me SO excited for the long summer days. I always find parenting easier in the summer too! I feel much happier in the warmer/sunnier months and I feel that makes a huge difference in my children’s moods too. Day drinking is one of the top for me – my fave is a fruity cider! 😉 #PostsFromTheHeart
I’ve always been an autumn/winter kind of person; I love the romanticism of crisp mornings, fog, firelight, and snuggle evenings, but I have to say my mind has definitely changed since having kids. Less washin and housework are my definite top 2 summer benefits!! #MarvMondays
I just think I am a bit more relaxed when it is sunny and we get out more which is so helpful as a parent!! haha. Enjoy your summer xx #mravmondays
Totally agree with all of that. I wrote a post recently called “Why I’m Glad We Left The UK” and the entire focus of the post is almost the same as yours.
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Summer is always my favorite time of year. I crave light and the long days and sunshine motivate me! It’s way easier for us all in the summer! Lovely post! #marvmondays
We’re always outside in the Summer too, it definitely makes life easier! #twinklytuesday
Day drinkin and pants-less toddlers!
Bring on summer!
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Yes yes to all the outdoors fun! It does make everything easier for the very good reasons you’ve said!! Instantly clicked on the she shed to go check that out… Thank you for linking up to the #familyfunlinky
Love it. I totally agree with everything you said. #familyfun
Oh go SO true!!! Plus I think summer food is easier to cook…it’s lighter so you can put in less effort?! And the pram basket isn’t full of those dinky kid puffa jackets!!
ps – found you through #familyfun linky – such a cute blog!
Totally agree with you! I’m looking forward for the girls to be outdoors more! #MarvMondays
I agree with all of these! I love it when we can make use of the garden in the summer. It’s like you acquire an extra room! 🙂 #MarvMondays
Yay to less clothing needing to be washed and cleaned.#PostsFromTheHeart
Totally agree, everyone always seems happier and more relaxed when the sun is shining and being able to get out for the day without having to take 10 layers of clothing and wellies etc is fantastic. #Ablogginggoodtime
Ah yes, the dreaded wellies – dried mud from which always ends up over my cream carpet!
Definitely agree that parenting is easier in the summer. I’m glad I’m not the only one who uses the paddling pool as an alternative to the bath! Potty training is also easier in the summer (am waiting for the warmer weather before embarking on it once again!) #ablogginggoodtime
Yes I’m waiting for summer to potty train Little B too – it’s definitely not a winter job!!
YES! Being able to put the children outside where they can be seen but not heard for half an hour – lovely!
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I’m not sure we know what seen but not heard is in our house!!
Day drinking is a massive highlight!! And I hadn’t even thought about the reduced mess factor of just sticking a baby outside. Maybe just in the flower bed sans nappy to eliminate both poonamis & the need to purchase compost!? #thelistlinky
I love how my little man just loves to be outside. He can spend an hour playing in the garden in the afternoon quite happily and I can finally get things done. And lighter nights just make everyone feel better. #ablogginggoodtime
Looking after 2 in the sunshine so so much easier. There is so much to do in the summer compared to winter #PostsFromTheHeart
high five for day drinking!
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