When I first took up running, I couldn’t even run for a minute. I’m not joking: my heart felt like it was going to pop out of my throat (or worse, explode) my calves burned and nothing about the process felt like it was doing me any good whatsoever.
My inability to run on a treadmill at the gym for even 60 seconds was so ridiculous that I was determined to up my time to at least two minutes, possibly three. I thought that if I didn’t like it, at least I’d given it a go.
The thing is I did like it, and the more I ran, the more I wanted to run. I started by setting myself little goals – walking for one minute, running for one minute, walking for one minute and so on until before I knew it I could manage 20, and from 20 I could manage 40 and from 40 I could manage 60. You get the picture.
Of course that was pre-children, when I had all the time in the world to spend in the gym. I haven’t set foot in one since BB was born in 2011.
But I have kept up the running. I now run outside two to three times a week (usually first thing in the morning when everyone else is asleep) because running keeps me sane. Without it I don’t know where I’d be. It’s seen me through good times and bad, the nausea of first trimesters (running turned out to be a brilliant cure) and that feeling of being totally overwhelmed that comes with juggling motherhood and a career.
So when Julie over at Happy Mama Happy Baby got in touch to see if I’d be interested in writing a guest post for her Body Positive January campaign, which is focussing on motherhood and happiness, I jumped at the chance because I truly believe running can transform your life.
5 ways running will change your life
1. A run can transform your day.
No matter how I’m feeling before setting off – no matter how lethargic or how much I’d rather roll over and go back to sleep – I’ve never come back from a run and not been glad I put my trainers on and ran out of the door. I’ve never not felt more alive, more invigorated and more full of energy than I did before leaving the house. Other than running shoes you don’t need any special equipment, and there a lots of deals for running gear online with things like a bluefin coupon code.
2. Running gives you space to think.
There’s nothing like a good run to focus the mind: whenever I come up against a problem, if it can wait, I tell myself I’ll think about it when I’m running. Nine times out of ten I’ll arrive home with a solution. I also use runs to plan my day, get my thoughts in order and work out what needs to be done and when. By the time I’m home I’m raring to go.
3. Running offers priceless me-time away from all your other responsibilities.
When I’m running I’m not a wife or a mother or journalist or a blogger or a sister or a daughter – I’m just me. Which is pretty much the only time I feel like that these days.
4. Running fits around you.
You don’t need to pay for membership or make sure you’ve put your name down for a set class on a set day: you can go for a run whenever you want. You don’t need to pay any money in order to do it and you don’t need any fancy equipment: all you need is a pair of trainers. And if something comes up, you can go tomorrow instead.
5. The advantages of running extend far beyond the obvious physical health benefits.
I ran into the third trimester of both my pregnancies, and was back running a month after each birth*. I’m convinced it was the running that helped me to have easy pregnancies and recover quickly after labour – I didn’t get swollen hands or feet or many other symptoms associated with pregnancy, I didn’t gain excess weight and my body healed swiftly afterwards. But mostly I think running can keep you mentally healthy by giving you time out from everything else that’s going on.
If you’ve always liked the idea of running but don’t know where to start have a look at the NHS’s Couch to 5K programme, which aims to get you off the sofa and running five kilometres in nine weeks. Lots of my friends and family have done it, many of whom have then said ‘now I understand why you run’.
Or if you can’t stand the idea of running but are looking for a better balance in your life keep an eye on the Body Positive January campaign for more guest posts about how to be a happy mummy.
You could also join me in taking part in Julie’s Instagram party, in which you’re charged with the task of posting a photo of yourself on Instagram every day, every week or even just once using the hashtag #realhappymamas.
How about you – what keeps you sane?
(*Please note this blog is called Confessions of a Crummy Mummy for a very good reason. I am NOT an expert and have NO medical training whatsoever: this post is based purely on my own experience. DO NOT try this at home and suddenly take up running – especially if you have a baby on board – unless a) you know what you’re doing, b) you’ve taken medical advice or c) preferably both).
Yes to all of this! I was exactly the same and did couch to 5k (well, I started it) and built up from running one minute until I was doing regular half hours. Then I hurt my foot and had to stop… suddenly life got in the way but I really want to start again. I never thought I’d enjoy it as much as I did.
Everyone I know who did Couch to 5K enjoyed it, such a good idea! Maybe one day soon you can get back to itx
Great post. I’m also doing Couch to 5k and was amazed in week 5 when I was able to run for 20 minutes without stopping. I’d never done that before in my life. With Christmas out of the way I’m back on the programme. I agree that running is good thinking time and it’s a nice way to appreciate your local area.
That’s so good to hear – I cannot imagine you running! Have you given up the ciggies then?!
Totally agree! I used to hate running but I some how learnt to love it and am now doing my first half marathon in March! I love it that much #bestandworst xx
Good luck with that! Hope the training is going well x
Love this post! I’m so pleased you have it. I can’t run well after a knee op but I feel the same way about exercise generally. Helps generally, keep sane, in pregnancy, in labour…I’m convinced!! This will be very inspiring for others and thanks for sharing with #bestandworst xx
Glad you like it! Sorry about your knee – I swim too which I love x
Thanks, you’ve reminded me of all the reasons I love running! I used to run regularly but gave up when pregnant and haven’t gotten back into it, although I’d really like to. I just keep making excuses for myself but this list makes me feel quite inspired again.
That’s so good – you should definitely get back to it if you love it!x
Fab post! I would love to run one day. I really need to get my a*se into gear! x
No time like the present!x
I actually hate running but I also respect it because running was part of my training for the Marines (12 years ago) but once I left, running became something I swore I’d never do again. However, I understand the benefits both physically and mentally. For me, I love Tai Chi and Kickboxing. I also hike. Hiking is my absolute favorite form of exercise because the mental benefits help me so much. It’s what I do when I need to clear my head, fight my inner demons, and just feel better about myself. I understand that running is like that for many people and for that reason, I have considered starting back up again. I love all of your points that have convinced me to at least consider getting back into it again. Love this post! #happydiaries
Wow I can totally understand your reasons for not wanting to run again – my brother is in the army so I know what training can be like! Love the idea of hiking too!x
Well done! I can’t run at all, did a bit of running a few years back when I did a 5k race but that was about 8 years ago! Now I couldn’t run to the end of the drive ;/
I bet you could if you tried!!
I agree with everything you say, even the bit about never thinking you’ll be a runner. That was me a few years ago. I do lack motivation sometimes but I have a ballot place for the London marathon this year so I have no excuses for not training! #sundaystars
How exciting! Misery Guts is running the Brighton marathon this year – good luck with yours x
Reading this has made me realise that I need to get running again! I haven’t run since November and like you say running is a great mood lifter.
Fantastic inspiration.
Thanks
Pleased to have inspired you!x
I’m a huge fan of running too for all the reasons you mention. After the twins it really was the only space I ever got anf I ran and ran and ran! I’m trying to do the half again this year but we will see. Thanks for linking up to the first #sundaystars of 2016. Hope to see you next week.
Sometimes I imagine I’m running away from it all – but don’t tell anyone!!
I have to confess In will never be a runner, Inlack the discapline and motivation to do it, but I do have friends that run. They alk say the actuall running bit maynot be enjoyable but the after feeli\g always makes it worth while.
Thanks for sharing, Tracey xx #happydiaries
Yes – the after feeling is a natural high!
Popping back from #justanotherlinky. Thanks for linking up xx
Always a pleasure!x
I really need to start running. I’m like you were, can’t even run for a minute without feeling like my heart will explode, but I really need to get off my butt and just do it. We even have a treadmill at home! I think I will try building it up like you suggest. Thanks for linking up with #sundaystars x
I started on a treadmill too and it was so easy as you can flick between walking and running at the touch of a button and monitor your activity – good luck!
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