When was the last time you got to drink a cup of tea hot? Or have a bath without someone coming in to use the loo?

If you canโ€™t remember then youโ€™re in good company.

things parents start but never get to finish

I often say if only I had ยฃ1 for every conversation I start but never get to finish since becoming a mum I’d be very rich indeed, but the thing is itโ€™s not just conversations I never get to finish.

Every single day I go to make myself a cup of tea and either the water never makes it into the cup or I find it stewed and cold hours later as the needs of everyone else take over.

And Iโ€™m not the only one. I asked some fellow mums and dads what they start but never get to finish since becoming parents โ€“ and yes sex is on the list!

10 things parents start but never get to finish

1. Sex! โ€œIn the early days, when they were tiny, the biggest thing for us was sex!โ€ says Laura at Five Little Doves. โ€œAnd really, what’s the point in starting if there’s no finish?โ€ (If that strikes a chord you might like my post on things they don’t tell you about sex after having a baby)

2. Conversations. โ€œHonestly, having a conversation with my husband without being interrupted by someone small is impossible,โ€ says Sara-Jayne at Keep Up With The Jones Family. โ€œUsually I’ve forgotten what I was talking about and give up!โ€

things parents start but never get to finish

3. Dieting. โ€œItโ€™s virtually impossible to lose your baby weight when you canโ€™t help but finish your toddler’s left overs!โ€ says Becky at Mommy and Rory.

4. Baths. โ€œI have a nice, hot bath with a bubble bath in a couple times a week,โ€ says Emma-Louise at Even Angels Fall. โ€œItโ€™s meant to be me time, and the children who have been put to bed arenโ€™t meant to disturb me, but they almost always do and most of the time I end up having to abandon it.โ€ (In our house it’s the exact moment I sink in the bath that the oldest decides she needs the loo – and it’s always a number two, never a number one. Why is that?)

things parents start but never get to finish

5. Watching a TV series. โ€œSomeone will always wake up crying half way through,โ€ says Beth at Twinderelmo. โ€œIโ€™ve been trying to finish Breaking Bad for about three years – Iโ€™m cursed.โ€

6. Reading a book. โ€œI start but never finish,โ€ says Lianne at Anklebiters Adventures.

things parents start but never get to finish

7. Tidying. โ€œItโ€™s never finished even though I never stop, there is always someone making more mess than I can tidy,โ€ says Star at Autism Kids On Tour. โ€œAlways!โ€

8. The washing. โ€œIโ€™m forever putting on wash loads and then forgetting about them,โ€ says Sarah at The Parenting Trials. โ€œI end up doing the same wash load four or five times!โ€ (Which is precisely why I have a dirty secret called Stuart.)

things parents start but never get to finish

9. Sorting out outgrown clothes. โ€œI’m always saying I’m going to list them on eBay or somewhere and I’ve got boxes and boxes of stuff,โ€ says Jennifer at Mighty Mama Bear. โ€œIt makes me tired just thinking about sorting through it all!โ€

10. The washing up. โ€œThe dishes get washed but they stay on the drainer until theyโ€™re used another day,โ€ says Teri at Rhyming Mum.

things parents start but never get to finish

Are there things you always start but never seem to be able to finish since becoming a parent? Iโ€™d love to hear what they are!

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