When was the last time you got to drink a cup of tea hot? Or have a bath without someone coming in to use the loo?
If you can’t remember then you’re in good company.
I often say if only I had £1 for every conversation I start but never get to finish since becoming a mum I’d be very rich indeed, but the thing is it’s not just conversations I never get to finish.
Every single day I go to make myself a cup of tea and either the water never makes it into the cup or I find it stewed and cold hours later as the needs of everyone else take over.
And I’m not the only one. I asked some fellow mums and dads what they start but never get to finish since becoming parents – and yes sex is on the list!
10 things parents start but never get to finish
1. Sex! “In the early days, when they were tiny, the biggest thing for us was sex!” says Laura at Five Little Doves. “And really, what’s the point in starting if there’s no finish?” (If that strikes a chord you might like my post on things they don’t tell you about sex after having a baby)
2. Conversations. “Honestly, having a conversation with my husband without being interrupted by someone small is impossible,” says Sara-Jayne at Keep Up With The Jones Family. “Usually I’ve forgotten what I was talking about and give up!”
3. Dieting. “It’s virtually impossible to lose your baby weight when you can’t help but finish your toddler’s left overs!” says Becky at Mommy and Rory.
4. Baths. “I have a nice, hot bath with a bubble bath in a couple times a week,” says Emma-Louise at Even Angels Fall. “It’s meant to be me time, and the children who have been put to bed aren’t meant to disturb me, but they almost always do and most of the time I end up having to abandon it.” (In our house it’s the exact moment I sink in the bath that the oldest decides she needs the loo – and it’s always a number two, never a number one. Why is that?)
5. Watching a TV series. “Someone will always wake up crying half way through,” says Beth at Twinderelmo. “I’ve been trying to finish Breaking Bad for about three years – I’m cursed.”
6. Reading a book. “I start but never finish,” says Lianne at Anklebiters Adventures.
7. Tidying. “It’s never finished even though I never stop, there is always someone making more mess than I can tidy,” says Star at Autism Kids On Tour. “Always!”
8. The washing. “I’m forever putting on wash loads and then forgetting about them,” says Sarah at The Parenting Trials. “I end up doing the same wash load four or five times!” (Which is precisely why I have a dirty secret called Stuart.)
9. Sorting out outgrown clothes. “I’m always saying I’m going to list them on eBay or somewhere and I’ve got boxes and boxes of stuff,” says Jennifer at Mighty Mama Bear. “It makes me tired just thinking about sorting through it all!”
10. The washing up. “The dishes get washed but they stay on the drainer until they’re used another day,” says Teri at Rhyming Mum.
Are there things you always start but never seem to be able to finish since becoming a parent? I’d love to hear what they are!
OMG, yes to the laundry! Yes to most of it actually, but especially the laundry. Because I’m the “only” person in the house that can do it 😉
Oh this is too true! Thank you for this! I needed it today as my whole family has the flu, we’re still working full time, and trying to keep up with our normal routines is proving to be impossible and nothing is getting finished! It’s always nice to know that there are no Pinterest-Perfect parents out there getting it all done!
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I have to smile as I’m reading this. I don’t know why. I went from children to a pack of dogs. Now my kids are talking about grandchildren. I can’t imagine doing anything with out getting interrupted EVER again!! x
I can relate to all of them! Especially conversations when on play dates with my friends and their kids. I always have this image of kids playing in the background while we enjoy our coffee and some long overdue catching up and bonding. In reality, our conversations get cut half way, several times, due to some child related emergency!
When they’re really little, my friend said to me “You’ll never eat hot food again” and for awhile that was true! #KCACOLS
Nodding along big time! I have a bottomless laundry basket, I rarely have an uninterrupted phone call or conversation with my hubby and it’s hard to finish dinner without having to get up 10 times before then abandoning it completely! Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next time x
I knew what number one was going to be!!! So true! It is a good thing these little creatures are cute! #KCACOLS
So so true! Great post lovely.
I ALWAYS get interrupted by the kids when I’m talking and it gets on my nerves so much haha! Lucky they’re cute! #KCACOLS
For my mummy it’s bath times, even though she locks herself away she still gets interrupted! #FamilyFunLinky
I’m constantly multi-tasking, as most busy mums and dads do. I don’t think i can really add to any of the above. But I definitely have to sigh under my breath when our 8 yo asks something. I remind myself the years are short! #kcacols
yes, yes, oh maybe not. LOL! The sex one made me laugh. Very true as are all your points. My house is never clean, the washing never finished and conversations never finished. Loved this! #FamilyFun
Hot drinks!! By the time I get to the bottom, they’re cold!!!
laundry is also true, but conversations are a big one here. after explaining that we aren’t actually talking to her or about anything that concerns her, half the time we forget what we were talking about to begin with #KCAOLS
Laundry is never ending, just when you think you’re finished you turn round and the laundry basket is full again. How! #TwinklyTuesday
such a funny and honest post that I’m sure many parents can relate to, I normally manage about 15 minutes of a bath to myself before my 5 year old strips off and dives in with me #familyfunlinky
Yes I think that’s a yes to all of the above. I really can’t think of any more though because let’s face it I have no brain power!! Oh because of sleep !! I never get to finish sleeping
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Books! Oh how I used to love to read book after book. I think I’ll get back to them in years to come when I retire;)
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This made me nod along and laugh out loud! Sex?! Ahahaha our kids seem to know the very moment the thought enters never mind anything else Great post #coolmumclub
The amount of time I have forgot to switch the washing machine on is crazy! #coolmumclub
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Ha! number 1 could not be more true! and how about chocolate? dare you try and open a chocolate bar when the kids are around! #coolmumclub
This is all so true! Life as a parent is a never ending series of never being finished things….oh well at least we tried to start them in the first place! Thanks so much for linking up to #coolmumclub hun xoxo
I don’t think there is any end to washing for parents. As soon as i empty the basket, it has something in it again! The book thing I can totally relate to, I’ve been trying to finish the Unmumsy Mum’s Diary for about 5 months. With a 3 month old I never finish a few nights sleep! #KCACOLS
Haha! This is so true! Don’t think I’ve had a bath longer than 5 minutes since having my little girl, I just opt for the shower now, its far easier and saves the disappointment of not being able to enjoy it properly. #KCACOLS
What’s sex?! These are all so true, although I ALWAYS make sure I drink my tea hot – nothing gets between me and my hot cuppa! General rule of thumb is that if it’s something I’m doing for me, it won’t get finished. #thelistlinky
Lol, these are so true. Sex is certainly an interestnig one, once children are in a bed and not a cot! #coolmumclub
My wife never gets to finish her tea. I rarely get to finish sentan… #kcacols
My wife never gets to finish her tea. I rarely get to finish sentan… #kcacols
All so true! For me, sorting out the outgrown clothes is the one I really struggle with. Both my kids wardrobes are chock-a-bloc with clothes that no longer fit, its just finding the time and motivation to work through them!! Thanks for linking up with #TwinklyTuesday
Hah, yes to all of this!! No my two are 4 and 1 I amfubalky starting to be able to finish things, I do still have atleast one cold cup of tea a day though!xx #coolmumclub
Nodding along to so many of these. Laundry is endless in our house and dieting is just impossible!! #KCACOLS
Yes to all the 10 things listed! My boys are teens now and I still don’t get to finish a conversation with the hubs !
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