Twinning.
Iβm referring, of course, to the practise of dressing siblings of different ages in matching outfits.
Before Littlest B was born in February I always turned my nose up at the idea β why on earth would you dress two children of different ages in the same thing? – but then I found myself with two girls and this happened.
The latest Cath Kidston brochure plopped onto my doormat and before I knew what I was doing Iβd ordered the most adorable matching dresses for Littlest B (two months) and BB (five and a half).
I simply couldnβt resist.
Of course Misery Guts hates the idea, but then he would, so I decided to canvass some fellow bloggers for their opinion.
It turns out there are two very different camps.
Would you dress siblings in matching outfits?
Yes!
βI do it and most of the time it’s because the boys all want to dress the same. They are all really close! It is also helpful if you are planning on going out (like to a theme park). If your child was to go missing then you can describe exactly what it is they are wearing.β Jaymee at The Mum Diaries
βI’ve started doing it in the hope that it will help my boys bond. There’s only 14 months between them and I really want them to be close. In the January sales I bought matching clothes for them for next Christmas!β Hollie at Thrifty Mum
βMy girls are always matching! I do it whilst I can because I think it’s beyond cute the way my toddler gets excited. My baby couldn’t care less what she wears and my eldest isn’t fussed either but she loves to βmatchβ her wee sister. If I’m out shopping I know to just buy double, which is great and many shops like Jojo Maman Bebe do βΒ£5 offβ multi buy deals.β Heather at The Imperfectly Perfect Parent
βI have a one year old and a three-week-old and I have several matching outfits already! I think it’s cute while they’re little.β Sam at My Mini Monkeys
βI do it! Mine are two years apart and as soon as I realised I had two boys I knew I would. They love it though and ask to look the same, so I’m exploiting that until they decide they don’t like it any more!β Laura at Life With Baby Kicks
βI’ll be honest I always hated it!! But then I had two girls and I’ve done it. Guilty.β Sarah at Run Jump Scrap
Would you dress siblings in matching outfits?
No!
βI only have the one daughter but have one on the wayΒ and I won’t be dressing them alike. My mother did it with my sister and I and it was mortifying as we were four years apartβ β Jenna at Then There Were Three
βIt might look nice on Instagram but it’s not really fair. My sister and I were less than a year apart and we always dressed as twins – what’s worse is she would get up first in the morning and I would have to wear whatever she picked out. I grew up feeling like her side kick!β Emily at A Slummy Mummy
βI remember the comments we’d get as children when my mum put us in matching jumpers. We’re four years apart each (so eight between me and my sister) and it was awful!! I remember we all had jumpers with ‘Next’ written on the front and people would find it hilarious to say ‘next, next, next’. It still makes me shudder!β Hayley at Devon Mama
βMy mum dressed my sister and I the same sometimes, and when I say the same I mean the EXACT same. There’s a four-year age gap, and maybe 80s fashion didn’t help but we looked ridiculous.β Lynette at New Mummy Blog
βNO! For some reason it enormously irritates me. Kids need to show personality & individuality.β Emma at Life in the Mumβs Lane
βI only have one child at the moment but matching clothes on other siblings makes me cringe. I can’t quite put my finger on it but it feels a bit odd. I don’t even like twins in the same clothes! Let them be individuals!β Emma at Emma Reed
What do you think? Do you have same-sexΒ children and do you dress them in matching outfits? Or do you think twinning is a big no-no? Iβd love to hear your point of view!
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I’m expecting my second boy soon and we will definitely be doing some matching! I absolutely love it – there’s nothing cuter! I doubt I’ll get away with it once they get older, but when they’re little I think it’s a lovely way to bond. There’s definitely an age cut off though – I remember hating wearing the same outfits as my sister, and even worse when we’d meet up with my cousins and all of us would be wearing the same outfit (gifted from my granny!) #FamilyFun
I am due with my second in July and there’ll be about 19 months between them… I don’t know the gender though so I guess that will make a difference. I think it’s something I might do occasionally for special occasions or days out but not day to day. I do find it mega cute but also we’ve got so many clothes that have been given to us that purely for practical reasons I don’t want to go and unnecessarily spend money on outfits when both kids already have plenty of clothes! Plus I like to leave babies in rompers and baby grows a lot of the time whereas my toddler boy is normally in leggings and joggers that he can run about in. #FamilyFun
I love putting my girls in matching outfits. It doesn’t stop me treating them as individuals. They’re both happy with it at the moment. If they weren’t happy to wear the same, I wouldn’t do it. I’m a twin and was often dressed the same as my sister until our tastes started to differ and we no longer wanted to dress alike. My mum always treated us as individuals though and I quite liked dressing the same. We bought the same dress (separately) last year and ended up matching when I went to visit her! It made us both laugh but my sister did end up getting changed! Not before we took a photo of us twinnies twinning once again though! π
I’ll be in the undecided camp. I guess if someone bought my kids matching outfits I’d do it but otherwise I wouldn’t go out my way to buy clothes, prettty much how I’ve not gone out my way to buy clothes anyway!! Interesting view points! βͺThank you for linking up to the #familyfunlinkyβ¬
I only have the one child so I’m not sure what I would do really. I do kind of like the idea, it would be so cute. My daughter and niece always turn up to things dressed very similarly which is unintentional but always seems to happen. Thinking about it as I’m writing I think I would be in the matching outfits club haha #familyfun
I have a boy and a girl with a 5 yr age gap so it’s not something I need to worry about. My initial thought was no, I wouldn’t do it, but then I’ve seen so many cute examples of it I’m not sure. If I did it would only ever be occasionally and not a regular thing. Both my kids are very independent and like to pick their own clothes so even if they were the same sex I don’t think they’d be impressed.
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Yes and no! How fickle I am!
To be honest I dress my kids in whatever is clean and doesn’t need ironing. If it happens to be the same then so be it… !!!
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Im kind of in the middle. I probably would but if at any point one didnt want to then I would not force them as I’d want them to be individuals.
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There was one thing I hated when I was younger and that was my mum dressing my sister who’s two years younger than me the same. But now I’m a mum I can totally see why she did, the cuteness factor. I have one child, so I like the idea of matching outfits. Sorry. But I’m always buying my nieces the same clothes, The are too adorable not to really. #kcacols
With 7 years between my sons it would never have happened even if I had wanted to. My boys are very different though and I would always want them to be able to dress in their own way. #KCACOLS
I bloody love to! I have one of each, so it’s not always easy, however I’m very lucky to having a Knitting Nan who creates them the most adorable matching cardigans and woolly hats! I tend to coordinate colours for big events, photo shoots etc. For a wedding we recently went to, we all wore purple. Mine and my daughters dress matched, and the boys wore matching bow tie + skinny tie. It was adorable, if I do say so myself π #kcacols
Having identical twins I love seeing them in identical outfits but also love now they’re older that they choose their clothes and get to show their individual personalities and how they are similar but have different tastes π #KCACOLS
I hated being dressed up like my little sister. We’re so different, and all that we have in common is in sex and our parents lol. I hated wearing dresses but my sister loved it. #kcacols
Before I had my girls, certainly before the second girl was born I was anti Twinning. From the age of 2 my eldest has chosen all her clothes and what she wears in a day because she has a strong opinion on the matter. Now my youngest is 2 and she has similar strong opinions. They can often be found twinning and it has nothing to do with me. It is 100% their choice for the day. I now find it quite cute but I think that is because it is a reflection of their relationship. If it was still down to me they would never match.
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I have two girls and they don’t wear exactly the same outfits, but I do the matching instead. I find a pattern and then one will wear it as a dress and the other will have the same pattern on leggings with a top. They love it and it still gives them some individuality. I will be doing it for as long as I can! I have no problem with people that do the twinning though, it does look cute x #KCACOLS
I love dressing my children similar (boy and girl so the same wouldn’t work) but if I had another girl or boy I would definitely dress them the same because I think it’s really cute! However I do believe there are limits and I will always ask when they are old enough to have a real opinion on the subject #KCACOLS
I have a boy and a girl and there is 7 years between them so dressing them the same was never an option. Personally I don’t like it, it creeps me out. But if people want to to that then go for it.
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