This post should probably come with a warning: itβs not for the faint hearted. Or the squeamish.
A bit like funny things they donβt tell you about childbirth, after three babies Iβve learnt there are things they just donβt tell you about lady bits and birth too, like cracked skin upstairs andΒ swelling downstairs.
They might be vaguely alluded to by a midwife, but no-one really gives you the lowdown on what to expect in the lady bits department after giving birth, or what to do about it.
Youβre left to find out for yourself that the best way to dry your foo-foo afterwards is with a hairdryer, and that using a white bath towel is a really bad idea.
Hereβs what I wish Iβd known.
Things I wish Iβd known about my lady bits
1. Stiches itch. A lot. And being padded up to the nines with super-size sanitary towels only makes it worse. This time round, though, Iβve had help in the form of My Expert Midwifeβs Spritz for Bits (Β£19.50 – love the name!) which you literally spray on your lady bits. It contains lavender, tea tree and witch hazel to soothe, calm and promote healing.
2. Breastfeeding can be really painful. Contrary to popular belief cracked and bloody nipples when you start breastfeeding are totally normal (see things no-one tells you about the first week of breastfeeding), and will pass. In the meantime, try to soothe them as best you can. My Expert Midwife has a No Harm Nipple Balm (Β£16.50)Β made with medical grade lanolin to reduce soreness, promote healing and repair cracked skin.
3. The skin on your tummy can hurt. As well as feeling like youβve doneΒ ten rounds in a boxing ring on the inside, your skin can hurt on the outside too. This time Iβve been using My Expert Midwifeβs Fantastic Skin Elastic (Β£27.50) on my tummyΒ which contains argan oil to restore and protect.
4. Leaking upstairs and downstairs is only temporary. It might feel like forever at the time, but before you know it the super-size sanitary towels and breast pads will be nothing but a distant memory. Honest.
5. Youβll probably heal faster than you think. After each of my babies I left hospital feeling like Iβd been in a car crash: swollen, waddling and in varying amounts of pain. And each time Iβve been surprised just how quickly I was back to my old self again.
Do you have any tips for post-natal recovery? Are there any products youβve used that help?
I was sent the Spritz for Bits, No Harm Nipple Balm and Fantastic Skin Elastic by My Expert Midwife for the purpose of review.Β The range is the brainchild ofΒ a midwife and mum duo and is designed to break taboos for newΒ and expectant mums. They’re usingΒ theΒ hashtag #letsbehonestΒ which I love! As always all opinions are my own and based on my own honest experience, and I would never recommend a product I donβt truly believe in.
Great post! It is surprising how quickly you start to feel like yourself again! Our bodies are amazing things! #TheList
Possibly the best post title ever! I whole-heartedly agree – you’re never quite ready for the weird stuff until it happens #thelistlinky
Those sound brilliant! I’ll definitely keep an eye out for those if I ever get around to having another kid.
Ooops! I always forget… #thelistlinky!
Oh my goodness! That title is hilarious!!! When my 4th baby was a newborn, he vomited blood and I freaked out and paged the pediatrician at 2:00 am. She said, “Are your nipples bleeding?” I said, “Yes, but I’m calling about my baby.” (Duh!) Then a pause before it dawned on me, “Oh! That’s *my* blood!” #thelistlinky
Nobody told me what happens to your body after having a baby, if they had I might have never been a parent lol
So true! I wish I had known that when they said I had a graze, and made it sound minor, that it would sting like a bitch and I’d be in agony on the toilet! But you do heal super fast, thank god! #TheListLinky
Great post, all so true and you’re right, no-one really tells you! These products look absolutely perfect for helping you through those initial weeks.
Lovely soothing sounding products #TriedTested
I love this idea, sounds like a great range of products. You never really know what it’ll feel like, but these would have really helped #TriedTested
This post made me giggle, it is true though and great that there are products out there to help! #triedtested
I know – I had no idea about the Spritz for Bits – such a great idea!
Love the name of this product – I never even knew something like this existed! I agree though, you really do feel like you’ve been in a car crash or similar after birth but very surprising how quickly you heal. #TriedTested
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